Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
+1. Spot on.She didn't "all the butterflies" immediately. If you're dealing with women on swipe apps, they have extremely high expectations for a first date given that the women have hundreds of options at any given time.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I agree that starting an interaction with a woman online makes it more likely to have a "one date, no sex, no second date" type interaction.+1. Spot on.
If you meet women online or by through a set up, you have to be James Bond + Brad Pitt. If you meet them naturally through some connection or common interest, much lower threshold,
They decide they aren't interested in repeating the process.We have drinks, and then... .
Corect since time immemorial.They decide they aren't interested in repeating the process.
Why is this difficult to understand?