"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Reasons a woman only meets up once?

SW15

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She didn't "all the butterflies" immediately. If you're dealing with women on swipe apps, they have extremely high expectations for a first date given that the women have hundreds of options at any given time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Her interest level in you was mediocre, and other guy(s) have came along who she is interested in more than that.
 

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It means she likes the way you look but not the way you act. You need to improve your social skills (charisma and confidence).
 

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She didn't "all the butterflies" immediately. If you're dealing with women on swipe apps, they have extremely high expectations for a first date given that the women have hundreds of options at any given time.
+1. Spot on.

If you meet women online or by through a set up, you have to be James Bond + Brad Pitt. If you meet them naturally through some connection or common interest, much lower threshold,
 

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You are a beta time ***** that she **** teases and ****s around with until her alpha ****s gets off work.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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+1. Spot on.

If you meet women online or by through a set up, you have to be James Bond + Brad Pitt. If you meet them naturally through some connection or common interest, much lower threshold,
I agree that starting an interaction with a woman online makes it more likely to have a "one date, no sex, no second date" type interaction.

I don't agree with the part about a set up. I would think the threshold on a set up by a mutual acquaintance or friend would be lower than that of a swipe app. A lot of beta males get into relationships from social circle setups.
 

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They decide they aren't interested in repeating the process.

Why is this difficult to understand?
Corect since time immemorial.
Man sets up a firm date.
Woman accepts -means she is interested
Man sets up another date. Woman accepts - she is still interested.

if woman rejects or postpone without counteroffer - she is not interested.
Corey Wayne has an expression for this,”women vote with their feet”. Means if she shows up she is interested. If not, no.
 

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Sometimes u feel like u have great chemistry online and when u meet IRL, for whatever reason (in my case, some girls turned out to be a whale/catfish), the attraction is gone, just like that.

But it works both ways, sometimes I wasnt feeling a girl online, or I thought she dosent look that good in her pictures, but I gave them a shot anyways, and in person they looked so hot! My attraction went off the charts.
 
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