You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The certainity that street fighter style combos are not gonna reach their faces is why, from their husband,friends or fathers.backbreaker said:the day my wife yells at me and throws a temper tantrum beucase i bought something i want.. as hard as i work, is the day i will be going to the mall to find her some new luggage to get her **** out of my house.
she knows better. **** knowing better she isn't that silly in the first place to even consider acting like a spoiled child.
that has nothing to do with marriage. that has everytihng to do with being a chump. lol you thinkt he ring on the finger is why the women acted like that?
For all your big talks here, I'd like to see you actually do it, so she can call the blue knights (cops) on you and kick you out of the house for trumped up domestic violence. What you're saying you would do to her is now defined by feminists and lawmakers as abuse, don't you know?backbreaker said:the day my wife yells at me and throws a temper tantrum beucase i bought something i want.. as hard as i work, is the day i will be going to the mall to find her some new luggage to get her **** out of my house.
she knows better. **** knowing better she isn't that silly in the first place to even consider acting like a spoiled child.
that has nothing to do with marriage. that has everytihng to do with being a chump. lol you thinkt he ring on the finger is why the women acted like that?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.