Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The certainity that street fighter style combos are not gonna reach their faces is why, from their husband,friends or fathers.backbreaker said:the day my wife yells at me and throws a temper tantrum beucase i bought something i want.. as hard as i work, is the day i will be going to the mall to find her some new luggage to get her **** out of my house.
she knows better. **** knowing better she isn't that silly in the first place to even consider acting like a spoiled child.
that has nothing to do with marriage. that has everytihng to do with being a chump. lol you thinkt he ring on the finger is why the women acted like that?
For all your big talks here, I'd like to see you actually do it, so she can call the blue knights (cops) on you and kick you out of the house for trumped up domestic violence. What you're saying you would do to her is now defined by feminists and lawmakers as abuse, don't you know?backbreaker said:the day my wife yells at me and throws a temper tantrum beucase i bought something i want.. as hard as i work, is the day i will be going to the mall to find her some new luggage to get her **** out of my house.
she knows better. **** knowing better she isn't that silly in the first place to even consider acting like a spoiled child.
that has nothing to do with marriage. that has everytihng to do with being a chump. lol you thinkt he ring on the finger is why the women acted like that?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.