"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
really young girls
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Gangster Of Love
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gruby said:
You will be better at attracting them when you stop putting so much emphasis on it. The fact that you are thinking about it so much is coming off as creepy, and women, of all ages, can sense it.
It is the guy who is good at attracting women of all ages, and getting very young ones is no big deal, the one who ends up not creeping them out. If you have that "I only want the very young ones" attitude, they will feel that creepy vibe.
Francisco d'Anconia
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:crackup: !!?? 22 ??!! :crackup:gruby said:
That's when the real silliness begins!!!
It was a bad move.
Not because she was young, but because she wasn't marriage material. But I didn't know that then. I found out. My fault.
I like the young ones. I was out with a 22yo the other night. We had a blast.
Age, in and of itself, simply doesn't matter. I recently had a 2 month run with a divorced, 35yo mother of two. Everything was fine. Until she finally started to believe me about "no commitment." She moved on. Ok with me.
You can run around with young women all you want. Just be careful about LTR's with them. And don't marry them. Better yet, don't marry at all, ever. (And I'm pretty down on LTRs, too. I think I'm done with them, really. No more.)
You can have LOTS of fun and really nice times with young women. Just don't expect too much from them.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Evolution said:
I don't know, I didn't have it then.
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I just love it because she loves to party and have fun. None if this uptight OMG YOU LIKE HAVING FUN bullsh!t.