"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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dude, r we really gonna argue about the meaning of the term?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gruby said:
ok all good info.

for me the teenagerness (stupidity) doesn't end untill they are 21-22 (graduating collage). And no i'm pretty sure i'm not interested in anybody below 18 (actually even that's too young). What i'm trying to find out is if the same atraction-she's-into-me clues that older women give off are also the truth for those teens.

You will be better at attracting them when you stop putting so much emphasis on it. The fact that you are thinking about it so much is coming off as creepy, and women, of all ages, can sense it.

It is the guy who is good at attracting women of all ages, and getting very young ones is no big deal, the one who ends up not creeping them out. If you have that "I only want the very young ones" attitude, they will feel that creepy vibe.
 

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gruby said:
...teenagerness (stupidity) doesn't end untill they are 21-22 (graduating collage). ...
:crackup: !!?? 22 ??!! :crackup:

That's when the real silliness begins!!!
 

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ok, sometimes i feel like i'm talking to myself here. did i ever say that i'm only in your girls? didn't i say that i,m usually in the older more mature girls and only now i'm looking to expand my age group?
 

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I married a woman 16 years younger than me.

It was a bad move.

Not because she was young, but because she wasn't marriage material. But I didn't know that then. I found out. My fault.

I like the young ones. I was out with a 22yo the other night. We had a blast.

Age, in and of itself, simply doesn't matter. I recently had a 2 month run with a divorced, 35yo mother of two. Everything was fine. Until she finally started to believe me about "no commitment." She moved on. Ok with me.

You can run around with young women all you want. Just be careful about LTR's with them. And don't marry them. Better yet, don't marry at all, ever. (And I'm pretty down on LTRs, too. I think I'm done with them, really. No more.)

You can have LOTS of fun and really nice times with young women. Just don't expect too much from them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My Name is Nobody said:
1) Get your own place.

2) Get a good job

3) get a nice ride

4) get some nice clothes

5) hit the gym

6) Read the bible

7) Hit on 21 year olds and take them out
How can I get all this when I'm only 17?
 
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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:crackup: !!?? 22 ??!! :crackup:

That's when the real silliness begins!!!

I just love it because she loves to party and have fun. None if this uptight OMG YOU LIKE HAVING FUN bullsh!t.
 
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