I'm 27 and was always atteacted to older girls: 28-32. I liked their maturity and outlook towards life. Still recently i was introduced to some you chicks (18-21) and realized that depsite their stupidity there is a a great energy about them. So i d like to ask you guys how you score with those young girls. I mean they should feel privilaged that a guy like me even talks to them but since i don't have much experinece with those teenagers i would like some input.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
really young girls
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Well, they're Very impressionable. If you don't say much and leave their thoughts to their imaginations, you're better off. Just let their imaginations run wild about you. A lot of them think that I'm some movie star on vacation, because i live in a place where movie stars are seen vacationing.
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I am currently dating a 21 year old and she is the bomb diggity. I'm just not letting myself get attached and enjoying the ride and we'll see what happens.
The best thing I have done is to keep the AFC locked in it's cage and I am keeping her interest.
The best thing I have done is to keep the AFC locked in it's cage and I am keeping her interest.
Well in stead of braging how about some tips?
I know how to bring in a 28 year old but it's mostly because i assume that by then the woman knows what she wants so i look in her eyes and she looks in mine and if the signs of attraction are there the deal is closed.
I would assume that a 21 year old would NOT know what she wants thus i have no clear plan of action.
I know how to bring in a 28 year old but it's mostly because i assume that by then the woman knows what she wants so i look in her eyes and she looks in mine and if the signs of attraction are there the deal is closed.
I would assume that a 21 year old would NOT know what she wants thus i have no clear plan of action.
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gruby said:
1) Get your own place.
2) Get a good job
3) get a nice ride
4) get some nice clothes
5) hit the gym
6) Read the bible
7) Hit on 21 year olds and take them out
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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How are you going to sleep with her without taking her out?gruby said:
well good for them, if i go for LTR i want it with a girl who's not holding out her desires.
besides that's beside the point. i'm not going into LTR with the teenagers. the question was about best way of scoring with them.
besides that's beside the point. i'm not going into LTR with the teenagers. the question was about best way of scoring with them.
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Since when is 21 a teenager?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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My Name is Nobody said:
i have all this ****. How come im not hitting any...
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because you look like abe vigoda's nutsack?funketekun said:
The Deacon
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Well, you're 27. If you want to hit on girls that age, you should be that older, mature, more experienced kind of guy. My brother's a cradle robber (he's 29 and his ex is 20) and that always seemed to work for him.
I don't have much experience in dating girls 8 years younger than me though. Hope that helps.
I don't have much experience in dating girls 8 years younger than me though. Hope that helps.
Dude teenager offically ends at 18. If you want to go below that you better check out your local laws.
Your older. Girls find that attractive. Just have half decent game, a half decent car and a half decent apartment you can take them to. DHV. Come across as stable and having a decent amount of money. Be up with all the talk young people talk about.
If you've got any game you shouldn't have to change much at all.
Your older. Girls find that attractive. Just have half decent game, a half decent car and a half decent apartment you can take them to. DHV. Come across as stable and having a decent amount of money. Be up with all the talk young people talk about.
If you've got any game you shouldn't have to change much at all.
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Pls change the title....the current one sounds this sound like a paedophilic thread 
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gangster Of Love
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Are you asking how to hit on them from the start, or how to proceed once they have agreed on getting together for the date, meeting, coffee, etc.?
Francisco d'Anconia
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So are you saying that despite their stupidity they should recognize that you are a quality guy?gruby said:
Gangster Of Love
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Exactly.Francisco d'Anconia said:
I would stay away from anybody under 22. Just too much agravation, and work, for my lazy self. But if you must, you gotta go test their sense of humor and "energy", and bust them and give them a hard time and make them qualify themselves to you by accusing/asking them if they are mature, etc.
ok all good info.
for me the teenagerness (stupidity) doesn't end untill they are 21-22 (graduating collage). And no i'm pretty sure i'm not interested in anybody below 18 (actually even that's too young). What i'm trying to find out is if the same atraction-she's-into-me clues that older women give off are also the truth for those teens.
for me the teenagerness (stupidity) doesn't end untill they are 21-22 (graduating collage). And no i'm pretty sure i'm not interested in anybody below 18 (actually even that's too young). What i'm trying to find out is if the same atraction-she's-into-me clues that older women give off are also the truth for those teens.
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Do you even know what the term "teenager" means?SinJester said:
I'm pretty certain 19 is the official end.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.