kindasuave
Don Juan
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Got it, way to clingy, i'll tone it down
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Really Weird S*** Test?
- Thread starter kindasuave
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
Prime example of low/no interest, read harry Wilmingtons post, this chick is in another castle, move on to another plate.
Maybe you didn't rock her world in the sack?
Peace.
Maybe you didn't rock her world in the sack?
Peace.
Harry Wilmington
Master Don Juan
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@Purefilth LoL, I actually wrote my post after reading this one. @kindasuave check out my post, "Sh!t test verses no interest: how to tell the difference" it should help you out.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Bullet point time:
- she should be ONE of your MANY options; clearly she's your only option
- your acting too clingy already which is a major turn off
- you two aren't married or even in an exclusive relationship, so she's free to do whatever she wants as are you
- stop chasing girls unless you want them to run further away from you
- develop inner game and learn how to develop attractive traits
- rinse and repeat for best results
PIMP
- she should be ONE of your MANY options; clearly she's your only option
- your acting too clingy already which is a major turn off
- you two aren't married or even in an exclusive relationship, so she's free to do whatever she wants as are you
- stop chasing girls unless you want them to run further away from you
- develop inner game and learn how to develop attractive traits
- rinse and repeat for best results
PIMP
kindasuave
Don Juan
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Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girlPimp-sicle said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
-You're asking for help so take it how its givenkindasuave said:
-all of his points are valid
-you are being a girl, she should be asking her friends these sorts of questions about you!
- i dont have any more points
-but i wanted to make some more bullet points for you
-ok?
Peace.