kindasuave
Don Juan
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Got it, way to clingy, i'll tone it down
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girlPimp-sicle said:Bullet point time:
- she should be ONE of your MANY options; clearly she's your only option
- your acting too clingy already which is a major turn off
- you two aren't married or even in an exclusive relationship, so she's free to do whatever she wants as are you
- stop chasing girls unless you want them to run further away from you
- develop inner game and learn how to develop attractive traits
- rinse and repeat for best results
PIMP
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
-You're asking for help so take it how its givenkindasuave said:Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girl
Calm the fvck down and listen to the advice.kindasuave said:Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girl