kindasuave
Don Juan
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Got it, way to clingy, i'll tone it down
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girlPimp-sicle said:Bullet point time:
- she should be ONE of your MANY options; clearly she's your only option
- your acting too clingy already which is a major turn off
- you two aren't married or even in an exclusive relationship, so she's free to do whatever she wants as are you
- stop chasing girls unless you want them to run further away from you
- develop inner game and learn how to develop attractive traits
- rinse and repeat for best results
PIMP
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
-You're asking for help so take it how its givenkindasuave said:Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girl
Calm the fvck down and listen to the advice.kindasuave said:Don't ****ing lecture me with a bullet point list like i'm a girl