"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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really quick about kino escalation

verysuave

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u touch her, and you wait for her to touch you back before you touch her again?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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depends on context
 

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No, not usually. What is more important than her touching you is whether or not she is comfortable with it. Of course touching you is a sign, but it isn't everything. If you are slowly esculating and she is enjoying don't worry about it. Just practise, practise and practise. Don't just kino attractive girls, you have to make it natural. Do it to everyone. Eventually you shouldn't have to think about it. Start out by learning how to make gestures with your arms when you are talking so that when you go to kino it seems in context with whatever you are talking about and is natural. Don't just stand there talking then think 'crap I need to kino now' and reach over and grab her. Also, don't look where you are touching.

Look here if you haven't seen this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147259

Say for example if you are running that don't worry if she is touching you back. It's enough that you are esculating without resistance.
 

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yo..a good way to kino escalate is asking her a screening question. if she qualifies then you can go head and put your arm around her shoulder and say "then we can hang out". so on and so forth.

pretty easy but it will help you set the mood

btw this is my last post as xdreamz..for now on posting under Sneaky_Beta :D
 
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