"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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really quick about kino escalation

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u touch her, and you wait for her to touch you back before you touch her again?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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depends on context
 
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No, not usually. What is more important than her touching you is whether or not she is comfortable with it. Of course touching you is a sign, but it isn't everything. If you are slowly esculating and she is enjoying don't worry about it. Just practise, practise and practise. Don't just kino attractive girls, you have to make it natural. Do it to everyone. Eventually you shouldn't have to think about it. Start out by learning how to make gestures with your arms when you are talking so that when you go to kino it seems in context with whatever you are talking about and is natural. Don't just stand there talking then think 'crap I need to kino now' and reach over and grab her. Also, don't look where you are touching.

Look here if you haven't seen this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=147259

Say for example if you are running that don't worry if she is touching you back. It's enough that you are esculating without resistance.
 
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yo..a good way to kino escalate is asking her a screening question. if she qualifies then you can go head and put your arm around her shoulder and say "then we can hang out". so on and so forth.

pretty easy but it will help you set the mood

btw this is my last post as xdreamz..for now on posting under Sneaky_Beta :D
 
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