so theres this girl...i met her through a friend of mine about a month and a half ago. I hung out with her once and then didnt talk to her a lot during the two months. so now she came to my town yesterday and me, her, the friend that introduced us and another person went to the movies. and during the movie, she started rubbing my arms and face and almost touched my d*ck. so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit. now my question is, do u guys think i went too far, too fast or what i did is logical??? help will be really appreciated, guys. and thanx
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
really need help with this one!!!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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xerex said:...so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
You should have gently caressed her bussom..
Juvenile...xerex said:so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
War Against Betaism
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The way you put it sounds kind of creepy.
Magma
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Maybe the OP is young and literally a juvenile. I used to grab boobies all willy nilly when I was teenager. More info and background please, OP.sinful said:Juvenile...
Oh, btw Sinful, looks like you're off to a good start here by offering useful advice.
Tip: If you believe his actions to be juvenile, explain why and offer some productive tips.
Respect.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
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She is a young ho.. so its simple...xerex said:so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
Make her laugh
rub on her to turn her on ... then F
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Why is it juvenile that he grabbed her tit is she grabbed his junk?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?