so theres this girl...i met her through a friend of mine about a month and a half ago. I hung out with her once and then didnt talk to her a lot during the two months. so now she came to my town yesterday and me, her, the friend that introduced us and another person went to the movies. and during the movie, she started rubbing my arms and face and almost touched my d*ck. so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit. now my question is, do u guys think i went too far, too fast or what i did is logical??? help will be really appreciated, guys. and thanx
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
really need help with this one!!!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonGorgon
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xerex said:...so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
You should have gently caressed her bussom..
Juvenile...xerex said:so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
War Against Betaism
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The way you put it sounds kind of creepy.
Magma
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Maybe the OP is young and literally a juvenile. I used to grab boobies all willy nilly when I was teenager. More info and background please, OP.sinful said:Juvenile...
Oh, btw Sinful, looks like you're off to a good start here by offering useful advice.
Tip: If you believe his actions to be juvenile, explain why and offer some productive tips.
Respect.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
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She is a young ho.. so its simple...xerex said:so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
Make her laugh
rub on her to turn her on ... then F
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Why is it juvenile that he grabbed her tit is she grabbed his junk?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?