so theres this girl...i met her through a friend of mine about a month and a half ago. I hung out with her once and then didnt talk to her a lot during the two months. so now she came to my town yesterday and me, her, the friend that introduced us and another person went to the movies. and during the movie, she started rubbing my arms and face and almost touched my d*ck. so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit. now my question is, do u guys think i went too far, too fast or what i did is logical??? help will be really appreciated, guys. and thanx
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
really need help with this one!!!
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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xerex said:...so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
You should have gently caressed her bussom..
Juvenile...xerex said:so then i started making my moves and i grabbed her tit.
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The way you put it sounds kind of creepy.
Magma
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Maybe the OP is young and literally a juvenile. I used to grab boobies all willy nilly when I was teenager. More info and background please, OP.sinful said:Juvenile...
Oh, btw Sinful, looks like you're off to a good start here by offering useful advice.
Tip: If you believe his actions to be juvenile, explain why and offer some productive tips.
Respect.
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so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
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She is a young ho.. so its simple...xerex said:so nobody really answered my question. anyway i didnt jus go in and grab it right away..i took my time and went REALLY slow. and she kinda pulled my hand towards her chest anyway. and i was expectin her to slap my hand away but she didnt so i jus thought she wants me to do it and kept going.....shes kinda flirty with everyone..if that helps
Make her laugh
rub on her to turn her on ... then F
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Why is it juvenile that he grabbed her tit is she grabbed his junk?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?
No, you didnt do anything wrong, it was the appropriate amount of escalation if she let you get away with it.
Why are you even questioning if this ok for you to do if there was nothing uncomfortable about the situation?