From Jan up until now)
Long story short this chick wanted me to be her boyfriend but I think she could tell by my actions i didn't want that , she eventually shied away from me (she stopped initiating contact and making effort ) but would still deal with me if I hit her up. She would go out of her way for me in small little ways..ect. she wouldn't really care if I popped up at her crib. I was confused as to why she wasn't initiating contact anymore but still entertained me)
2 weeks pass, I call her phone , she answers and says " Who is this Lamar? (In a dragging voice)".." What do you want Lamar"? ( As if she was slightly aggravated). I asked where she was at and she says at my mom's house. I was like " oh so your busy" instead of saying "yes" ,which I expected because of her tone, she says " No I'm just at my mom's house chilling" (I could hear fondness in her voice it was uncontrollable ) , I told her to text the address, she says ok, 10 mins passed and she never texted it. So I call and she answers and immediately says " I'm about to send it now". We ended up chilling but I think it was a inconvenient time for her because she ended telling me she was about to back in and chill and she'll hit me up when she gets home. I was driving off and I saw her and someone standing in the doorway and the person was fussing at her (either her mom or stepdad).
So the next day I texted her And told her I want her to hut the raid and we go out if state she says " idk I'm going to see I'm not about to be down there doing nothing crazy"..I then told her it's not about that and how I'm crazy about her ( I've never said nothing like that to her before lol)..she says " you crazy about me fr..buy my something to eat then" I told her I don't feed b*tches..she texted back "Boy bye"..I texted her heart eyes the next day and she just read it..I texted her again and told her don't ignore my sh*t..and told her I don't want to lose her and how I'll probably die..she texts back " stop it"..I texted back "". ( Again I've never talked to her like that before)
I didn't contact her for 3 weeks.
I finally did and texted her " i need you to drive me to the city, this is Lamar"..she instantly called me in seconds and when I answered it her voice sounded like she was waiting to hear from me and she instantly said "where you at"( I could hear fondness in her voice)..I told her that I'll be ready in 2 hrs and she again asked where i was at, I never answered her just continued talking, she asked again and I l still never told her, I finally told her and she gets angry and says " Lamar!!!" I say "what's up?" And she hangs up in my face. I called back no answer.( It took me until the next day to realize that I think she wanted to see me " I think")
I call back the next day and she answers ,, I told her again I need her to drive me to such and such " she asks when and asked if she can do it now and she says "okay let me get these kids situa-" while she was taking I hung up the phone, didn't mean to. I texted her and told her to let me know and I'll send the address. She never texted back.
So 2 days later I write her on IG and say " I wanna see you"..she texts back " Lamar leave me alone I need some money and you don't have that"..I texted back " what you mean"" communicate and let me know what you mean"...she only ready it. This happened tuesday..
At this point I'm confused af??? What's going on?? Is she mad??? Why is she mentioning money?? She has never asked me for money before...why is her behavior so confusing ???
Long story short this chick wanted me to be her boyfriend but I think she could tell by my actions i didn't want that , she eventually shied away from me (she stopped initiating contact and making effort ) but would still deal with me if I hit her up. She would go out of her way for me in small little ways..ect. she wouldn't really care if I popped up at her crib. I was confused as to why she wasn't initiating contact anymore but still entertained me)
2 weeks pass, I call her phone , she answers and says " Who is this Lamar? (In a dragging voice)".." What do you want Lamar"? ( As if she was slightly aggravated). I asked where she was at and she says at my mom's house. I was like " oh so your busy" instead of saying "yes" ,which I expected because of her tone, she says " No I'm just at my mom's house chilling" (I could hear fondness in her voice it was uncontrollable ) , I told her to text the address, she says ok, 10 mins passed and she never texted it. So I call and she answers and immediately says " I'm about to send it now". We ended up chilling but I think it was a inconvenient time for her because she ended telling me she was about to back in and chill and she'll hit me up when she gets home. I was driving off and I saw her and someone standing in the doorway and the person was fussing at her (either her mom or stepdad).
So the next day I texted her And told her I want her to hut the raid and we go out if state she says " idk I'm going to see I'm not about to be down there doing nothing crazy"..I then told her it's not about that and how I'm crazy about her ( I've never said nothing like that to her before lol)..she says " you crazy about me fr..buy my something to eat then" I told her I don't feed b*tches..she texted back "Boy bye"..I texted her heart eyes the next day and she just read it..I texted her again and told her don't ignore my sh*t..and told her I don't want to lose her and how I'll probably die..she texts back " stop it"..I texted back "". ( Again I've never talked to her like that before)
I didn't contact her for 3 weeks.
I finally did and texted her " i need you to drive me to the city, this is Lamar"..she instantly called me in seconds and when I answered it her voice sounded like she was waiting to hear from me and she instantly said "where you at"( I could hear fondness in her voice)..I told her that I'll be ready in 2 hrs and she again asked where i was at, I never answered her just continued talking, she asked again and I l still never told her, I finally told her and she gets angry and says " Lamar!!!" I say "what's up?" And she hangs up in my face. I called back no answer.( It took me until the next day to realize that I think she wanted to see me " I think")
I call back the next day and she answers ,, I told her again I need her to drive me to such and such " she asks when and asked if she can do it now and she says "okay let me get these kids situa-" while she was taking I hung up the phone, didn't mean to. I texted her and told her to let me know and I'll send the address. She never texted back.
So 2 days later I write her on IG and say " I wanna see you"..she texts back " Lamar leave me alone I need some money and you don't have that"..I texted back " what you mean"" communicate and let me know what you mean"...she only ready it. This happened tuesday..
At this point I'm confused af??? What's going on?? Is she mad??? Why is she mentioning money?? She has never asked me for money before...why is her behavior so confusing ???
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