Hello guys, I am new to this forum, even though i've reading the posts for quite some time. I'd like to know when a girl really feels attraction for one or when she's just interested in one for external things such as financial security for example. Are there any specific hints or obvious signals I should be aware of for these two different scenerios? Thanks in advance. -Scorpion
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Really attracted or just interested in external things?
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They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.bigjohnson said:They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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Sorry - I wasn't very helpful but I get tired of seeing this sort of question. First, what I said is true. They ALL want it, to some degree, and this doesn't make them bad. The idea that it makes them bad is a feminist concept, that somehow a woman shouldn't depend on a man. So there's that.
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
You can tell if she wants you or your money by her IL. Somewhere in here, there is interest level scale post, very good. Judging by her actions you can tell where shes at on the scale, and if its high, then she wants you, and if its low and she still with you, then shes after your money. Pretty much same as Franciscos answer.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yes, a woman wants a man and not what a man has!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.