Hello guys, I am new to this forum, even though i've reading the posts for quite some time. I'd like to know when a girl really feels attraction for one or when she's just interested in one for external things such as financial security for example. Are there any specific hints or obvious signals I should be aware of for these two different scenerios? Thanks in advance. -Scorpion
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Really attracted or just interested in external things?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.bigjohnson said:They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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Sorry - I wasn't very helpful but I get tired of seeing this sort of question. First, what I said is true. They ALL want it, to some degree, and this doesn't make them bad. The idea that it makes them bad is a feminist concept, that somehow a woman shouldn't depend on a man. So there's that.
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
You can tell if she wants you or your money by her IL. Somewhere in here, there is interest level scale post, very good. Judging by her actions you can tell where shes at on the scale, and if its high, then she wants you, and if its low and she still with you, then shes after your money. Pretty much same as Franciscos answer.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Yes, a woman wants a man and not what a man has!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.