Hello guys, I am new to this forum, even though i've reading the posts for quite some time. I'd like to know when a girl really feels attraction for one or when she's just interested in one for external things such as financial security for example. Are there any specific hints or obvious signals I should be aware of for these two different scenerios? Thanks in advance. -Scorpion
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Really attracted or just interested in external things?
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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.bigjohnson said:They're all interested in financial security. Next question?
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Sorry - I wasn't very helpful but I get tired of seeing this sort of question. First, what I said is true. They ALL want it, to some degree, and this doesn't make them bad. The idea that it makes them bad is a feminist concept, that somehow a woman shouldn't depend on a man. So there's that.
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
Second, it just takes time and in the end you can never be sure. Watch, listen, and remember, it's a natural thing so try not to get to worked up over it unless it's just completely out of hand.
My $0.02
You can tell if she wants you or your money by her IL. Somewhere in here, there is interest level scale post, very good. Judging by her actions you can tell where shes at on the scale, and if its high, then she wants you, and if its low and she still with you, then shes after your money. Pretty much same as Franciscos answer.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
But all women are after security, as its their natural instinct. Just like were after fvcking as many girls as we can. So you cant blame her.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Yes, a woman wants a man and not what a man has!!!Francisco d'Anconia said:LOL, mostly the stereotypical ones. Here's one way to tell whether a woman may be at least a little different. Ask yourself how much has she asked about you as compared to how much she's asked about what your have or what you do for a living.