"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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REAL mentors

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I don't know about you, but in my early DJ years, I looked around for guys the same as me, people in and out of the public eye.

There are a fair few playboys around - today and in the history books - look no further than Don Juan!

A man who's had em all and is an international playboy extroadinaire is none other than Mick Jagger - 7 different (known) kids by 4 different women and countless lovers/plates.

Who do you rate?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Begins and ends with James Dean. More specifically, his role in Rebel Without A Cause

I modeled my game after him. I still sometimes approach situations from the frame of "how would james dean handle this?"

His sexual preference aside, dude was the king of cool

He focus wasn't on getting laid, it was on being a man.
 

TonyBaloney

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I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
 

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TonyBaloney said:
I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
it's tough nowadays to become an icon because of technology, so you're always in the public eye

people like dean only let you see what they wanted you to see. that's hard to do now. the coverage of celebs is such that we're numb to them, we see them in their everyday lives, so the iconic image is tarnished

i'm a huge gq/esquire nerd and both mags emphasize being an old school man. cultured, bold, masculine, etc

we need a younger version of the most interesting man in the world
 

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My Movie TV Role Models:

Sean Connery James Bond
-Why not Roger Moore you ask, well I do enjoy him as Bond, I would have to say that if one tried to be like Roger Moores James Bond around women, they would think he was extremely corny, extremely lame and in between being a nice guy and a very strange guy.

Richard Dean Anderson as Macgyver
-Out of all these people he probably most resembles a real world person who would do well with the ladies.

Clint Eastwood as Dirty Harry
-Tough as sh*t, laid back and tough as sh*t...yes again.

Arnold Swchwarrzennegar as Commando
-Definitely want to be a man of action.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'm in the Mood

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Those are celebrities, not mentors, not playboys. The true playboys out there are the ones you don't see on TV/in the media because they are average guys who happen to be extraordinary naturals.
 

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If you were to read my original post, i said about role models in and OUT of the PUBLIC eye.

I said that i personally rated JAGGER as a PLAYBOY which he was - just look over the newspapers of the last 50 YEARS.

;) Hope that your now informed ;)
 

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My best friend..... Even in our AFC days, he'd hit more puss than me just because he was never never shy of approaching/rejection.... Prior to this, he was the most wussy brother I had seen! His college change him tho'. After we started studyin' game together, he became a beast!

A classmate i once had [he got expelled], prototype of the so called "jerk".... He was the epitome of ****iness, he was so hated that he was really loved for it. Confused huh? Yeah me too, don't know how he did it. Girls just loved his sh!t.

Clint Eastwood. Just Clint.

James Dean, James Dean, James Dean.... I even try to look like him.

And when we wanna talk Bond, then I'm surely speakin' Danny Craig as James Bond.... Roger Moore's messed, by the way.
 
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