"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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REAL mentors

TonyBaloney

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I don't know about you, but in my early DJ years, I looked around for guys the same as me, people in and out of the public eye.

There are a fair few playboys around - today and in the history books - look no further than Don Juan!

A man who's had em all and is an international playboy extroadinaire is none other than Mick Jagger - 7 different (known) kids by 4 different women and countless lovers/plates.

Who do you rate?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MisterD

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Begins and ends with James Dean. More specifically, his role in Rebel Without A Cause

I modeled my game after him. I still sometimes approach situations from the frame of "how would james dean handle this?"

His sexual preference aside, dude was the king of cool

He focus wasn't on getting laid, it was on being a man.
 

TonyBaloney

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I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
 

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TonyBaloney said:
I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
it's tough nowadays to become an icon because of technology, so you're always in the public eye

people like dean only let you see what they wanted you to see. that's hard to do now. the coverage of celebs is such that we're numb to them, we see them in their everyday lives, so the iconic image is tarnished

i'm a huge gq/esquire nerd and both mags emphasize being an old school man. cultured, bold, masculine, etc

we need a younger version of the most interesting man in the world
 

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My Movie TV Role Models:

Sean Connery James Bond
-Why not Roger Moore you ask, well I do enjoy him as Bond, I would have to say that if one tried to be like Roger Moores James Bond around women, they would think he was extremely corny, extremely lame and in between being a nice guy and a very strange guy.

Richard Dean Anderson as Macgyver
-Out of all these people he probably most resembles a real world person who would do well with the ladies.

Clint Eastwood as Dirty Harry
-Tough as sh*t, laid back and tough as sh*t...yes again.

Arnold Swchwarrzennegar as Commando
-Definitely want to be a man of action.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm in the Mood

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Those are celebrities, not mentors, not playboys. The true playboys out there are the ones you don't see on TV/in the media because they are average guys who happen to be extraordinary naturals.
 

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If you were to read my original post, i said about role models in and OUT of the PUBLIC eye.

I said that i personally rated JAGGER as a PLAYBOY which he was - just look over the newspapers of the last 50 YEARS.

;) Hope that your now informed ;)
 

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My best friend..... Even in our AFC days, he'd hit more puss than me just because he was never never shy of approaching/rejection.... Prior to this, he was the most wussy brother I had seen! His college change him tho'. After we started studyin' game together, he became a beast!

A classmate i once had [he got expelled], prototype of the so called "jerk".... He was the epitome of ****iness, he was so hated that he was really loved for it. Confused huh? Yeah me too, don't know how he did it. Girls just loved his sh!t.

Clint Eastwood. Just Clint.

James Dean, James Dean, James Dean.... I even try to look like him.

And when we wanna talk Bond, then I'm surely speakin' Danny Craig as James Bond.... Roger Moore's messed, by the way.
 
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