"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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REAL mentors

TonyBaloney

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I don't know about you, but in my early DJ years, I looked around for guys the same as me, people in and out of the public eye.

There are a fair few playboys around - today and in the history books - look no further than Don Juan!

A man who's had em all and is an international playboy extroadinaire is none other than Mick Jagger - 7 different (known) kids by 4 different women and countless lovers/plates.

Who do you rate?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Begins and ends with James Dean. More specifically, his role in Rebel Without A Cause

I modeled my game after him. I still sometimes approach situations from the frame of "how would james dean handle this?"

His sexual preference aside, dude was the king of cool

He focus wasn't on getting laid, it was on being a man.
 

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I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
 

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TonyBaloney said:
I used to have his rebel without a cause poster - very cool dude and i wanted his bags under my eyes - which i have now got ;)

Yeah good point about him being a real man - i think that whats sorely missing for this generation = people like Jagger and Dean are from other eras - but still completely relevant as they are true men - who are kids gonna look uo too in the future - snoop dog???:down:
it's tough nowadays to become an icon because of technology, so you're always in the public eye

people like dean only let you see what they wanted you to see. that's hard to do now. the coverage of celebs is such that we're numb to them, we see them in their everyday lives, so the iconic image is tarnished

i'm a huge gq/esquire nerd and both mags emphasize being an old school man. cultured, bold, masculine, etc

we need a younger version of the most interesting man in the world
 

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My Movie TV Role Models:

Sean Connery James Bond
-Why not Roger Moore you ask, well I do enjoy him as Bond, I would have to say that if one tried to be like Roger Moores James Bond around women, they would think he was extremely corny, extremely lame and in between being a nice guy and a very strange guy.

Richard Dean Anderson as Macgyver
-Out of all these people he probably most resembles a real world person who would do well with the ladies.

Clint Eastwood as Dirty Harry
-Tough as sh*t, laid back and tough as sh*t...yes again.

Arnold Swchwarrzennegar as Commando
-Definitely want to be a man of action.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm in the Mood

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Those are celebrities, not mentors, not playboys. The true playboys out there are the ones you don't see on TV/in the media because they are average guys who happen to be extraordinary naturals.
 

TonyBaloney

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If you were to read my original post, i said about role models in and OUT of the PUBLIC eye.

I said that i personally rated JAGGER as a PLAYBOY which he was - just look over the newspapers of the last 50 YEARS.

;) Hope that your now informed ;)
 

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My best friend..... Even in our AFC days, he'd hit more puss than me just because he was never never shy of approaching/rejection.... Prior to this, he was the most wussy brother I had seen! His college change him tho'. After we started studyin' game together, he became a beast!

A classmate i once had [he got expelled], prototype of the so called "jerk".... He was the epitome of ****iness, he was so hated that he was really loved for it. Confused huh? Yeah me too, don't know how he did it. Girls just loved his sh!t.

Clint Eastwood. Just Clint.

James Dean, James Dean, James Dean.... I even try to look like him.

And when we wanna talk Bond, then I'm surely speakin' Danny Craig as James Bond.... Roger Moore's messed, by the way.
 
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