"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Game all women and use the less attractive ones for conversation practice. Don't take them out Or don't make them a plate...
I thought about this, it may be easier just to take the hot ones out, and not have to let the friendzoned ones down...unless its a group thing...hmmm (scratches chin)

Hmm...I have four open seats in my car. Over time, I could fill those, with a dinner adventure crew.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The only other tip I'll throw out there is don't let the date drag on too long.

I used to think that talking for three hours was a good sign. Umm not really.

I thought Espi once said something to the effect of ending the date after something like 90 mins (if I remember correctly?)
Dinner (I'm thinking China town), and a bit of a hollywood drive... 2 hours max.
 

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Nah, focusing on kino is for people just looking to hookup. I'm not. I would like to find the woman I'll spend the rest of my life with...then kino, and all of that, are definitely in the cards.
LOL..no it's not. Touch tells people you can be emotionaly there for them (hugs, pats on the back) it can also tell people that you are friendly and trustworthy(high 5's and handshakes.).
It also helps you show confidence both socially and sexually.

Ask yourself what do you think your potential wife is looking for? A person who is not very friendly, is reserved, not there for them emotionally, and doesn't seem confident in their sexuality and masculinity. Even if that is not true, by avoiding kino and touch that is the imptession you are giving.

Your future wife is going to want a confident masculine man who wants to touch her. Every woman you meet is an audition for that role.
How are you going to know if she is comfortable with touch if you never touch her because there are women who don't like it.

Just out of curiousity why do you want a wife so bad? Instead of focusing on that meet and date women and you will probably meet one you could marry.

Having been married, it really isn't all it is cracked up to be. I have more emotional connection with the woman I am seeing than I ever did with my wife.
 

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I would like to find the woman I'll spend the rest of my life with...then kino, and all of that, are definitely in the cards.
(hee he...I just have too) awwwwwe :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LOL..no it's not. Touch tells people you can be emotionaly there for them (hugs, pats on the back) it can also tell people that you are friendly and trustworthy(high 5's and handshakes.).
It also helps you show confidence both socially and sexually.

Ask yourself what do you think your potential wife is looking for? A person who is not very friendly, is reserved, not there for them emotionally, and doesn't seem confident in their sexuality and masculinity. Even if that is not true, by avoiding kino and touch that is the imptession you are giving.

Your future wife is going to want a confident masculine man who wants to touch her. Every woman you meet is an audition for that role.
How are you going to know if she is comfortable with touch if you never touch her because there are women who don't like it.

Just out of curiousity why do you want a wife so bad? Instead of focusing on that meet and date women and you will probably meet one you could marry.

Having been married, it really isn't all it is cracked up to be. I have more emotional connection with the woman I am seeing than I ever did with my wife.
What he said! It is about embracing your masculinity. This is straight from Pook's book. No kino means your afraid of it, or afraid of rejection, neither of which are good for a strong man. I am not saying be crude or disrespectful, but ALL humans want to be touched. ALL humans want to be social.

Think about when you were 8 years old? you would grab a girl by the arm and say "lets go play". You didn't care in any way whatsoever, and if you were fun, you could get as many girls to play with as you wanted. You (and every other male) has been conditioned out of these normal behaviors.
 

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I think what the others are saying is that kino doesn't have to be sexual. And I agree completely.

Yes, if a guy is trying to score, he will start out with some friendly innocent kino and increase it to progressively more naughty kino as time goes on. It would be like climbing a ladder, rung by rung.

But in your case, you can just focus on more innocent kino such as...

1. Touch her forearm while making a point.

2. High 5 or fist bump her if she says something cool or very funny.
 

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Im excited for you, please keep reporting :)
 

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I think what the others are saying is that kino doesn't have to be sexual. And I agree completely.

Yes, if a guy is trying to score, he will start out with some friendly innocent kino and increase it to progressively more naughty kino as time goes on. It would be like climbing a ladder, rung by rung.

But in your case, you can just focus on more innocent kino such as...

1. Touch her forearm while making a point.

2. High 5 or fist bump her if she says something cool or very funny.
Yeah, I usually let the ladies initiate any touching, that way there is no way of coming across as creepy. They usually go for my arm, or put their hands in my freshly buzzed hair. Hugs are common, too.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Don't get mad at what I'm going to say, I quite like you.

Things I say get taken wrong sometimes ;)

However, you say in this thread that you want to date women that you don't find attractive. And then you say that you don't intend on touching them.

What's that all about? What exactly is your game?
Not everyone is comfortable being full on DJ, but everyone needs a coach, a sounding board, access to mentoring and support.
 

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Not everyone is comfortable being full on DJ, but everyone needs a coach, a sounding board, access to mentoring and support.
Yeah, it was tough growing up with a feminist mom and beta dad. I'm still trying to deprogram all that sh!t. And, I'm 43!!!
 
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