Ready to start going out...

[wifehunter]

I'm finally getting ahead, being a driver. It's been a real tough 5 months. I'm ready to start taking my ladies out!

I'm thinking of starting with the ones, I'm not attracted to. Dry runs (no nerves) would be good to get used to having ladies, always in the mix, for any dinner adventures.

However, if they fall in love... I'll have to let them down easy, keeping them in the sister/friend zone.

Any advice?

 

[dustmuffin]

Remember eye contact and kino.

 

[wifehunter]

Remember eye contact and kino.

No kino for me yet. It may make me crazy

Eye contact... Check! Yes!

 

[wolf]

Could someone please educate me on what Kino is? I haven't been in this forum long.

 

[wifehunter]

Could someone please educate me on what Kino is? I haven't been in this forum long.

I'll give you a hint... It easliy leads to sex.

 

[JohnChops]

No kino for me yet. It may make me crazy

Eye contact... Check! Yes!

Why not practice your kino?

 

[wifehunter]

Why not practice your kino?

"I'm just not ready for a relationship yet, Lois!"

- Ace Ventura

 

[wolf]

I'll give you a hint... It easliy leads to sex.

Rohypnol??

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Rohypnol??

Kino means touch. Finding oportunities to touch the person you are with and escalating it. Not in a sleazy creepy way.

 

[wolf]

Kino means touch. Finding oportunities to touch the person you are with and escalating it. Not in a sleazy creepy way.

Like when a girl wants to hold your hand? Would this be her using kino?

I always assumed then by adding touch to the equation you were subliminally adding something 'more'.

Eg.. While making eye contact pay her a small compliment and touch her arm/shoulder etc. Her brain will associate said compliment with touch and in future you won't need to apply a compliment... just touch her arm/shoulder for her to feel the same kick of dopamine..

Am I on the right lines?

 

[wifehunter]

Like when a girl wants to hold your hand? Would this be her using kino?

I always assumed then by adding touch to the equation you were subliminally adding something 'more'.

Eg.. While making eye contact pay her a small compliment and touch her arm/shoulder etc. Her brain will associate said compliment with touch and in future you won't need to apply a compliment... just touch her arm/shoulder for her to feel the same kick of dopamine..

Am I on the right lines?

Yes, I need to stay away from the oxytocin and dopamine...

... It messes with my head....uhh, both!

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Yes and no.. It is more about getting her used to being touched by you so that when you decide to kiss or make out you are already there because you have been touching her already and increasing the sensuality of the touch. The first touch might be a high five or a hug but later on it might be a booty grab or stroking her skin.

Look up "kino escalation ladder"

 

[BreezyB84]

I'm finally getting ahead, being a driver. It's been a real tough 5 months. I'm ready to start taking my ladies out!

I'm thinking of starting with the ones, I'm not attracted to. Dry runs (no nerves) would be good to get used to having ladies, always in the mix, for any dinner adventures.

However, if they fall in love... I'll have to let them down easy, keeping them in the sister/friend zone.

Any advice?

If you are going to do this,I will as well. I'll do a field report 2.

 

[Roober]

Got to do the kino dude. Its just little things. Think of her as your little sister. Start small with a poke on the shoulder or otherwise, think of her as your sister. Its more complex than that, but you get the idea.

Of the interest is there, she Will not flinch and will gradually position herself closer. She will adjust and randomly touch legs, etc. By the end of the night, you should be able to put your hand on the small of her back. Active things work great because you can hi five, etc. On my last date, she would hi five with a slap. After a couple timese, she would then hold my hand for a couple seconds until I let go.

Get out there wifehunter and you have to kino!

 

[daddymonsterpoodle]

Kino helps a lot but you can still build sexual tension without it using direct gaze, the smirk and conversation...
And confidence.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Gaming women that you aren't attracted to will just set you back by months or years, and I wouldn't recommend it.

Worse to game ones not into you. St least he can rack up on puzzy

 

[Roober]

Gaming women that you aren't attracted to will just set you back by months or years, and I wouldn't recommend it.

I thought about this same idea just to build some practice with talking to women. Game all women and use the less attractive ones for conversation practice. Don't take them out Or don't make them a plate...

 

[Mike32ct]

The only other tip I'll throw out there is don't let the date drag on too long.

I used to think that talking for three hours was a good sign. Umm not really.

I thought Espi once said something to the effect of ending the date after something like 90 mins (if I remember correctly?)

 

[wifehunter]

If you are going to do this,I will as well. I'll do a field report 2.

I'll do an FR on the hot ones, not the friendzoned ones.

 

[wifehunter]

Got to do the kino dude. Its just little things. Think of her as your little sister. Start small with a poke on the shoulder or otherwise, think of her as your sister. Its more complex than that, but you get the idea.

Of the interest is there, she Will not flinch and will gradually position herself closer. She will adjust and randomly touch legs, etc. By the end of the night, you should be able to put your hand on the small of her back. Active things work great because you can hi five, etc. On my last date, she would hi five with a slap. After a couple timese, she would then hold my hand for a couple seconds until I let go.

Get out there wifehunter and you have to kino!

Nah, focusing on kino is for people just looking to hookup. I'm not. I would like to find the woman I'll spend the rest of my life with...then kino, and all of that, are definitely in the cards.