I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I thought about this, it may be easier just to take the hot ones out, and not have to let the friendzoned ones down...unless its a group thing...hmmm (scratches chin)
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner (I'm thinking China town), and a bit of a hollywood drive... 2 hours max.
Ok cool.
LOL..no it's not. Touch tells people you can be emotionaly there for them (hugs, pats on the back) it can also tell people that you are friendly and trustworthy(high 5's and handshakes.).
(hee he...I just have too) awwwwwe
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What he said! It is about embracing your masculinity. This is straight from Pook's book. No kino means your afraid of it, or afraid of rejection, neither of which are good for a strong man. I am not saying be crude or disrespectful, but ALL humans want to be touched. ALL humans want to be social.
Yeah, I usually let the ladies initiate any touching, that way there is no way of coming across as creepy. They usually go for my arm, or put their hands in my freshly buzzed hair. Hugs are common, too.
Will do, there are definitely fun times ahead!Im excited for you, please keep reporting
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Not everyone is comfortable being full on DJ, but everyone needs a coach, a sounding board, access to mentoring and support.Don't get mad at what I'm going to say, I quite like you.
Things I say get taken wrong sometimes
However, you say in this thread that you want to date women that you don't find attractive. And then you say that you don't intend on touching them.
What's that all about? What exactly is your game?
Yeah, it was tough growing up with a feminist mom and beta dad. I'm still trying to deprogram all that sh!t. And, I'm 43!!!