"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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cola

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What the **** is a alpha male? No one is a alpha male. some dudes are losers some aren't. Who walks around saying "I'm a alpha male" with their chest poked out ? You guys are ****ing nerds .. Why are you putting so much effort into some **** so easy ? Some guy came up with these terms and **** because they knew slacker guys would buy it and he would get paid. girls like to have sex .. Probably more than you. Stop being ****ing nerds and using these ridiculous terms and lingo and go the **** outside.. Say hi to a bunch of girls and sooner or later one of them will **** you.


#pua theory dead
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wildebeest

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youre right and youre wrong

action and being a man is everything will fix all of the problems you may have.

pua theory is mostly an overcomplicated mess used as a crutch by over-analytical weak boys.

the thing is, as mystery once said, we're here because your fathers never taught you how to be men.

pua theory is mostly a scam for money. the true solution is becoming your own man.
 

zekko

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There is such a thing as an alpha male, but I guarantee you 95% of the guys calling themselves that on this forum are not it. You're not an alpha male just because you convince yourself that you are. You're not an alpha male just because you have some confidence in yourself, or aren't afraid to talk to girls, or because you know what a neg is, or because you got laid last night.

Walking around thinking you are an alpha male is not a bad mindset to have. Walking around saying you are an alpha male most likely makes you out to be a frigging joke.
 

Htienvu

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Of course there are such thing as Alpha male, it's just a name for being a leader of a pack. Like an Alpha Wolf. However, most guys misunderstand how it is to be Alpha male. It's not just being the toughest, but also being intelligent, knowing how to act/treat people and others look up to you for being the way you are.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jariel

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Absolutely true and well said. What amuses me is that PUAs think they can instantly become an alpha male by walking, talking or acting a certain way, but the very fact that they are trying so hard to prove themselves shows just how insecure and pathetic they really are.

The same goes for the old "bad boy" term. In reality, a bad boy is someone who steals cars, robs people, sells drugs, has done time for rape and/or assault (and sodomized the pretty boys while inside), NOT some nerd who speaks like a gangsta rapper, acts rude to people in the vague hope of getting a girl to look at him, swears, smokes or drops litter.

Instead of aiming to be an alpha male or a bad boy, you should just focus on being happy, making the most of yourself and pursuing the things you want. That way you will become a PIMP and everyone knows a pimp outranks all other PUAs.
 
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