nonjuanlearner
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is there anything else you guys would reccomend me to read, ive got david deangelo's stuff but looking for more LTR / Dealing with breakup kind of stuff
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Read the DJ Bible but...
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Maximus Rex
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How To Succed With Women, by Louis and Copeland
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Master Don Juan
"Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R Covey
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Socialreject
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Yah, i would say this is a good recommendation if you are looking for something aimed more towards LTR and finding a catch! I've read this book and i thought their pick-up routines were a bit too cheesy, DD stuff is much more on the level with my style when it comes to pick up's. But when i got to the later sections of the book dealing more in terms of LTR i found it much more interesting.Maximus Rex said:
Definitly a book worth reading/buying.
I'd also recommend some of Leil lowndes stuff for the more LTR type of readings. It's also interesting to read from a womans perspective ;-)
Blackdragon5095
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Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
SeldomSeen
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The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
nonjuanlearner said:
The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
How to Have Confidence and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.