nonjuanlearner
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is there anything else you guys would reccomend me to read, ive got david deangelo's stuff but looking for more LTR / Dealing with breakup kind of stuff
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Read the DJ Bible but...
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maximus Rex
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How To Succed With Women, by Louis and Copeland
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"Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R Covey
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Socialreject
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Yah, i would say this is a good recommendation if you are looking for something aimed more towards LTR and finding a catch! I've read this book and i thought their pick-up routines were a bit too cheesy, DD stuff is much more on the level with my style when it comes to pick up's. But when i got to the later sections of the book dealing more in terms of LTR i found it much more interesting.Maximus Rex said:
Definitly a book worth reading/buying.
I'd also recommend some of Leil lowndes stuff for the more LTR type of readings. It's also interesting to read from a womans perspective ;-)
Blackdragon5095
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Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
SeldomSeen
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The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
nonjuanlearner said:
The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
How to Have Confidence and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.