nonjuanlearner
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is there anything else you guys would reccomend me to read, ive got david deangelo's stuff but looking for more LTR / Dealing with breakup kind of stuff
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Read the DJ Bible but...
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maximus Rex
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How To Succed With Women, by Louis and Copeland
Keeper
Master Don Juan
"Seven Habits of Highly Effective People" by Stephen R Covey
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Socialreject
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Yah, i would say this is a good recommendation if you are looking for something aimed more towards LTR and finding a catch! I've read this book and i thought their pick-up routines were a bit too cheesy, DD stuff is much more on the level with my style when it comes to pick up's. But when i got to the later sections of the book dealing more in terms of LTR i found it much more interesting.Maximus Rex said:
Definitly a book worth reading/buying.
I'd also recommend some of Leil lowndes stuff for the more LTR type of readings. It's also interesting to read from a womans perspective ;-)
Blackdragon5095
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I know 2.
Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
Doc Love ( The system ). I got it for free ( I got my tricks ).
Good stuff, really helps you understand women.
David Deangelo
He good too. Really helped me understand women but also life. His stuff is worth reading. ( once again I got for free ).
SeldomSeen
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The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
nonjuanlearner said:
The best way to deal with a breakup is to let it go. People need time to get things sorted. If things werent that bad then I can assure you she will be back but in the mean time go out and date casually. If you all were cool then keep in touch via email once ever blue moon. Like I said the most important thing is time. Time to sort things out, time to get over one another. With that time comes that person missing you and eventually wanting to see you again. Happens all the time.
How to Have Confidence and Influence People - Dale Carnegie
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
... the title explains it really... awesome book for a general social skill, great compliment to DeAngelo's book, in that it shows you how to conduct yourself in general situations, not just in dating and attractions.
Think Like A Winner - Dr. Walter Doyle Staples
Along with "7 Habits", this book really is a great book to get you to think like a World Champion, irregardless of what field of endeavor you're aspiring to master.
To Your Best!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.