"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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RE:Is this cutting off your nose to spite your Face

Warrior74

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zekko said:
?? I think like me, I've been divorced, and I didn't get blindsided.

Everyone complains about the divorce laws and all, but do you honestly think that upon divorce, the woman is not entitled to ANY assets from the marriage?
Um yah. Like you. It's better to lay waste and give from a position of strength to think, well she IS entitled to SOME and find out later she wants it ALL. I assume you screened well and picked a woman who had some morals and scruples. But it doesn't matter what you think, what matters is what the lawyers and judges think. And if she pushes it, they will think for her side only usually.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jophil28

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Danger said:
I would also be wary of this thinking. It does not matter whether they said "THEIR" house or not.
Most divorced women are white hot angry at their ex-husbands and use their rage to justify the biggest grab they can .
Women seems to have a sense of being so wronged to the extent that they feel entitled to 'compensation' for the failure of the marriage. They truly believe that he failed in delivering her dream and therefore it is only fair that he should compensate her by handing over his cash.

Wacked.
 
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