"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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RE:Is this cutting off your nose to spite your Face

Warrior74

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zekko said:
?? I think like me, I've been divorced, and I didn't get blindsided.

Everyone complains about the divorce laws and all, but do you honestly think that upon divorce, the woman is not entitled to ANY assets from the marriage?
Um yah. Like you. It's better to lay waste and give from a position of strength to think, well she IS entitled to SOME and find out later she wants it ALL. I assume you screened well and picked a woman who had some morals and scruples. But it doesn't matter what you think, what matters is what the lawyers and judges think. And if she pushes it, they will think for her side only usually.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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jophil28

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Danger said:
I would also be wary of this thinking. It does not matter whether they said "THEIR" house or not.
Most divorced women are white hot angry at their ex-husbands and use their rage to justify the biggest grab they can .
Women seems to have a sense of being so wronged to the extent that they feel entitled to 'compensation' for the failure of the marriage. They truly believe that he failed in delivering her dream and therefore it is only fair that he should compensate her by handing over his cash.

Wacked.
 
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