"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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RE:Is this cutting off your nose to spite your Face

Warrior74

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zekko said:
?? I think like me, I've been divorced, and I didn't get blindsided.

Everyone complains about the divorce laws and all, but do you honestly think that upon divorce, the woman is not entitled to ANY assets from the marriage?
Um yah. Like you. It's better to lay waste and give from a position of strength to think, well she IS entitled to SOME and find out later she wants it ALL. I assume you screened well and picked a woman who had some morals and scruples. But it doesn't matter what you think, what matters is what the lawyers and judges think. And if she pushes it, they will think for her side only usually.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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jophil28

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Danger said:
I would also be wary of this thinking. It does not matter whether they said "THEIR" house or not.
Most divorced women are white hot angry at their ex-husbands and use their rage to justify the biggest grab they can .
Women seems to have a sense of being so wronged to the extent that they feel entitled to 'compensation' for the failure of the marriage. They truly believe that he failed in delivering her dream and therefore it is only fair that he should compensate her by handing over his cash.

Wacked.
 
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