"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Rather than calling this girl......

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So, I've met this girl and I got her number. We see each other on campus a lot and I'm wondering, rather than calling her and asking her to go out to a movie or whatever, should I simply ask her when I see her?

At the end of the day on Monday, we run into each other (we have class in the same building, and she usually waits around for me, or she'll walk really slow towards her car, or if she sees me behind her, she waits up for me) and we talk all the way to the parking lot, and then we usually hang around for a while and talk. Last week when we talked it was about a half hour. So, I obviously have a rapport and I already have her number. We haven't gone out before, but I'm thinking a movie or dinner or something can't hurt. I actually haven't called her either, just been really busy with school/work/working out.

I also mentioned to her that I played golf and she said.. "I'd really like to learn how to play." Every girl I've told that to says that though, so I'm not sure about it lol. Any advice on this situation? Any ideas on what to do? It is at the end of the day, and I'm sure she's just as hungry as I am by then....
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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you already know what to do man. Just ask her out. Go hang out have a good time let her enjoy your company.

WHat are you waiting for?
 

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Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
 

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Maxtro said:
Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
exactly.....just suggest something and progress
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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