"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rather than calling this girl......

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So, I've met this girl and I got her number. We see each other on campus a lot and I'm wondering, rather than calling her and asking her to go out to a movie or whatever, should I simply ask her when I see her?

At the end of the day on Monday, we run into each other (we have class in the same building, and she usually waits around for me, or she'll walk really slow towards her car, or if she sees me behind her, she waits up for me) and we talk all the way to the parking lot, and then we usually hang around for a while and talk. Last week when we talked it was about a half hour. So, I obviously have a rapport and I already have her number. We haven't gone out before, but I'm thinking a movie or dinner or something can't hurt. I actually haven't called her either, just been really busy with school/work/working out.

I also mentioned to her that I played golf and she said.. "I'd really like to learn how to play." Every girl I've told that to says that though, so I'm not sure about it lol. Any advice on this situation? Any ideas on what to do? It is at the end of the day, and I'm sure she's just as hungry as I am by then....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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moto

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you already know what to do man. Just ask her out. Go hang out have a good time let her enjoy your company.

WHat are you waiting for?
 

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Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
 

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Maxtro said:
Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
exactly.....just suggest something and progress
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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