"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Rather than calling this girl......

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So, I've met this girl and I got her number. We see each other on campus a lot and I'm wondering, rather than calling her and asking her to go out to a movie or whatever, should I simply ask her when I see her?

At the end of the day on Monday, we run into each other (we have class in the same building, and she usually waits around for me, or she'll walk really slow towards her car, or if she sees me behind her, she waits up for me) and we talk all the way to the parking lot, and then we usually hang around for a while and talk. Last week when we talked it was about a half hour. So, I obviously have a rapport and I already have her number. We haven't gone out before, but I'm thinking a movie or dinner or something can't hurt. I actually haven't called her either, just been really busy with school/work/working out.

I also mentioned to her that I played golf and she said.. "I'd really like to learn how to play." Every girl I've told that to says that though, so I'm not sure about it lol. Any advice on this situation? Any ideas on what to do? It is at the end of the day, and I'm sure she's just as hungry as I am by then....
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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moto

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you already know what to do man. Just ask her out. Go hang out have a good time let her enjoy your company.

WHat are you waiting for?
 

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Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
 

moto

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Maxtro said:
Wow these types of threads are very common.

Anyways as you're walking towards your cars or standing around suggest that you get lunch together.

Also tell her that you are going to play golf and such and such date, and ask if she would like to come with. When she says she doesn't know how to play tell her that it's not a problem. Teaching somebody how to do a golf swing is a great excuse for some kino.
exactly.....just suggest something and progress
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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