Rate this guys face plz

[BaronOfHair]

@Cheeky_James
Something to think about

As noted here

The Velocity Of Chad

As said, I am, in many respects a traditionally/classically handsome guy, and I've known(no, not in the Biblical sense) many more like myself. Even we have parts of ourselves which are below par* that we have to overcome. To your other points: People stop being nice to attractive guys, when we...

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Physical beauty on a man is simultaneously a blessing and a curse. Attractive men are held to a higher standard, up to and including having to regularly prove that

-They're not simply getting by on their looks alone

-They're more than just another f-c-boy

Don't get envious of what you perceive to be the advantages others possess. Frequently enough, perceptions come nowhere close to capturing the full truth

 

[Cheeky_James]

@Cheeky_James
Something to think about

As noted here

The Velocity Of Chad

As said, I am, in many respects a traditionally/classically handsome guy, and I've known(no, not in the Biblical sense) many more like myself. Even we have parts of ourselves which are below par* that we have to overcome. To your other points: People stop being nice to attractive guys, when we...

www.sosuave.net

Physical beauty on a man is simultaneously a blessing and a curse.
Attractive men are held to a higher standard, up to and including having to regularly prove that

-They're not simply getting by on their looks alone

-They're more than just another f-c-boy

Don't get envious of what you perceive to be the advantages others possess. Frequently enough, perceptions come nowhere close to capturing the full truth

dude I’m well aware of how Chad guys do it,
And it’s hardly a ‘curse’ (big lol at that.)
I agree with Harmurabimbis first comment.

They are not held to a higher standard etc lol
All the value is projected and presupposed onto them via their looks. They can get away with all sorts of bad behaviour in reality.
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also just musing on this Chad thing for the past hour actually.

If a Chad has any ‘secret’ or ‘trick’ besides his great looks… it’s that Chad guys know women well. And know all about the reality of attraction and this 3 second response thing with women. As they’ve seen it 100s or maybe 1,000 times.

So Chads screen for this hard and very quickly - in the first few minutes (or less) To see how ‘green light’ the chick is and what she’s up for.

If she’s not very green light, plays or puts up obstacles he cuts the chick quick and moves on to the next. So as not to waste time.

For example - a Chads texting game is super basic . He asks a few key questions to check for strength of the green light and then gets down to business.

it’s a good model imo…
For any guy. Most guys mistake is they pvssyfoot around and beat around the bush. When they ought to be more assertive. Gotta be willing to lose the ones that are not playing ball for whatever it is you want.

 

[BaronOfHair]

also just musing on this Chad thing for the past hour actually

Spend an hour outside, and you'll notice what's kinda sorta discussed here https://www.facebook.com/share/v/19hKBeCXE1/ play out regularly

Being handsome is of limited value, if a man isn't also drenched in personal magnetism. Thus, even though all those fellas in the linked example are attractive, Sebastian Stan* is really the lone consistent panty dropper of them all



*Again, comely looks have been both an advantage and disadvantage to Ol' Seb. He's had to work diligently to demonstrate he can really act, going so far as to take roles which ugly him up

Similar is true of non-celebrity men who are pleasing to the eye. They've got to work hard to prove they're not more shallow than a kitchen sink

 

[Cheeky_James]

@BaronOfHair

seriously, you guys need to stop sprooking this Rediculous idea ..that there are Handsome men out there IRL that DONT have personal magnetism.

they are a tiny % of the population of handsome men. The autistic types. I wouldn’t worry about em.

Like this is a ‘strawman’ argument or something.
I don’t know the name for it. Strawman feels correct.

and stop looking to Actors as examples ffs!
They are playing Characters! They have scripts !
That’s not real life!!

FML.

 

[Cheeky_James]

@BaronOfHair - in addition to the above

this is the guy that runs that channel ‘charisma on command’ - Charlie Houpert.

Question - do you notice anything about him looks wise?

 

[BaronOfHair]

@Cheeky_James "seriously, you guys need to stop sprooking this Rediculous idea ..that there are Handsome men out there IRL that DONT have personal magnetism"

I take it you've never read or heard the phrase "blandly handsome". Frequently used to refer to fellas like Josh "Remember Him?" Lucas

Anyway, go outside for more than 5 minutes, each and every day for the next week, for the express purpose of observing the way human beings operate out in the wild. You'll learn far more doing so than asking folks online to rate another man's looks

 

[Cheeky_James]

@Cheeky_James "seriously, you guys need to stop sprooking this Rediculous idea ..that there are Handsome men out there IRL that DONT have personal magnetism"

I take it you've never read or heard the phrase "blandly handsome". Frequently used to refer to fellas like Josh "Remember Him?" Lucas

Anyway, go outside for more than 5 minutes, each and every day for the next week, for the express purpose of observing the way human beings operate out in the wild. You'll learn far more doing so than asking folks online to rate another man's looks

I also asked you did you notice anything about Charlie Houpert (the charisma on command channel guy).. about his looks. Post #185 with hsi p


well?
Don’t just dodge the question mate….

Re Josh Lucas
.. oh yeah , so ‘blandly handsome’ that guy . Riiight I’m sure his mrs would agree w you..





Dream on , dream believer.