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Master Don Juan
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agreedez 9/10 maybe even 9.5, that's assuming she has a good body though
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
agreedez 9/10 maybe even 9.5, that's assuming she has a good body though
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yes EXACTLY.CJ doesn't this^^ prove there is no magic "formula" that will guarantee a woman will feel chemistry with you?
yes again exactly.Three woman, one didnt feel chemistry, two others DID! You behaved the exact same with all three! Your "game," your looks were the same
There is no rhyme or reason to any of this IME. Looksmaxxing etc. There are guys on this forum who have posted about going out wearing a Nike sweatshirt, jeans and baseball cap and they have pulled plenty of women!
I agree with it's about how a woman feels when she sees you, meets you and in your presence.
Not sure if such feelings can be manufactured by what he "does," for me personally when I notice a man "trying" to impress me or trying to create a feeling in me, it's a great big turn off. It comes off contrived and phony in many instances.
To me he lacks true confidence to just be himself and trust that's enough. If not, so be, he moves on
I will either feel it naturally and organically or I won't. He does NOT have to be the most attractive man in the room, he does not have to be a model or be wearing the perfect shoes, clothes, have the right hair etc. He doesn't even need to have a lot of charm or charisma!
What he needs to be is attractive to me, and yes I have my own standards which I won't bother listing because another woman might have a different list.
And I am not one to brag but I am considered quite attractive, depending on the guy and what attracts him. Whether he likes blondes or brunettea, light-skinned, dark-skinned, petite, tall etc. Like we've been saying it's all subjective.
My current boyfriend for example thinks I am a solid 10!No joke, even when I wake up in the morning! Lol
So it really has nothing to do with how beautiful a woman is, women are women, she either feels chemistry, that certain somethin somethin, sexual tension or she doesn't.
Don't try to force it CJ or find the magic sauce, just be you. Be the best you can be, if that means getting in better physical shape or getting a better haircut or whatever do it! For YOU. Women will notice but do it for you.
It's been said here when a chick is into you, you could do handstands in the middle of Fifth Avenue in NYC and she will think it's hilarious!
Another woman not feeling it will think you are obnoxious and be turned off.
That's how genuine attraction and chemistry works IME anyway and what I have observed outside this forum IRL.
$.02
I didn't 'get there,' I have been posting about physical chemistry and energy from the beginning.I’m glad you got there in the end !!
Good looks TO HER.Game = good Looks.
fvck.I didn't 'get there,' I have been posting about physical chemistry and energy from the beginning.
Good looks TO HER.
Again it's subjective and it's also based on his natural vibe, how he carries himself, his voice, it's ALL related.
Nuff said.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yes. Now we're getting slightly into the nuance which is something i've spoken about at length.Good looks TO HER.
this is the kind of BS that is rife on this forum.Having said that. Jayz and Beyonce in her prime. Jayz is objectively ugly and Beyonce is/ was objectively beautiful.
Yes he is a billionaire but she is also filthy rich so that evens each other out..
Beyonce could literally date any male model or pretty actor. Yet she choose Jayz. Why? Because he's a charismatic mofo!
So logically you can apply this to any social settings where the man and woman are somewhat equal. Pretty female waitress and ugly male cook. Pretty cashier and ugly store manager. Pretty student and ugly student.
You are a troll and the forum keeps feeding you so..oh well..