friendlydays
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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
it's not armpit hair...it's her long hair hanging at the back!Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
lol to me she looks like a wax figure. Also I think I see some armpit hair. Well if she is real and dosen't have armpit hair I'd say a 7.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
if you think she was pale then you probably think most white women are pale?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
if i was slightly tough on the rating i could go as low as 6, her face is U G L Y hey body itself is at least a 7 except for the fact that she is too pale for my liking.
i wouldnt hit it with her...unless she went to a tanning salon and i had a plastic bag to put over her head![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You expect me to believe that?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i wouldnt hit it with her...
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.Originally posted by friendlydays
http://www.mabuhaybeauties.com/04bbpress/01.htm
Huh? what do you mean?Originally posted by CableLight
I like how - at the time of posting this - 3 of the most recently answered 5 posts in this forum are posts from friendlydays asking for opinions on the hotness of a few women
That's great...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Naaah I'm just curious about cultural beauty. We know that beauty is cultural and very subjective. I'm doing a poll because i want to see how different races of people perceive different types of beauty. that's all.Originally posted by stevera004
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.
Snap out of it and go after normal looking chicks.
PS: This chick is absolutely perfect and flawless (looking). 9.8873 I would guess-timate on the old 1-10 scale.
Same here. Maybe 6.5-7 max. Reminds me of a vampire or something...Originally posted by MidwestFreek
Thats a really fake looking smile. She looks plastic, turn off. Pale. Just not that hot. 6.
Okay...It's really not that important and I'm not sure how I could have reworded that for it to make any more sense. "Three of the top five most recently replied to posts" = the first five posts you see when you enter a forum; minus the stickied posts which are always on the top.Originally posted by friendlydays
Huh? what do you mean?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.