friendlydays
Don Juan
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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
it's not armpit hair...it's her long hair hanging at the back!Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
lol to me she looks like a wax figure. Also I think I see some armpit hair. Well if she is real and dosen't have armpit hair I'd say a 7.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
if you think she was pale then you probably think most white women are pale?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
if i was slightly tough on the rating i could go as low as 6, her face is U G L Y hey body itself is at least a 7 except for the fact that she is too pale for my liking.
i wouldnt hit it with her...unless she went to a tanning salon and i had a plastic bag to put over her head![]()
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You expect me to believe that?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i wouldnt hit it with her...
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.Originally posted by friendlydays
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Huh? what do you mean?Originally posted by CableLight
I like how - at the time of posting this - 3 of the most recently answered 5 posts in this forum are posts from friendlydays asking for opinions on the hotness of a few women
That's great...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Naaah I'm just curious about cultural beauty. We know that beauty is cultural and very subjective. I'm doing a poll because i want to see how different races of people perceive different types of beauty. that's all.Originally posted by stevera004
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.
Snap out of it and go after normal looking chicks.
PS: This chick is absolutely perfect and flawless (looking). 9.8873 I would guess-timate on the old 1-10 scale.
Same here. Maybe 6.5-7 max. Reminds me of a vampire or something...Originally posted by MidwestFreek
Thats a really fake looking smile. She looks plastic, turn off. Pale. Just not that hot. 6.
Okay...It's really not that important and I'm not sure how I could have reworded that for it to make any more sense. "Three of the top five most recently replied to posts" = the first five posts you see when you enter a forum; minus the stickied posts which are always on the top.Originally posted by friendlydays
Huh? what do you mean?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.