friendlydays
Don Juan
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
it's not armpit hair...it's her long hair hanging at the back!Originally posted by GlutusMaximus86
lol to me she looks like a wax figure. Also I think I see some armpit hair. Well if she is real and dosen't have armpit hair I'd say a 7.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
if you think she was pale then you probably think most white women are pale?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
if i was slightly tough on the rating i could go as low as 6, her face is U G L Y hey body itself is at least a 7 except for the fact that she is too pale for my liking.
i wouldnt hit it with her...unless she went to a tanning salon and i had a plastic bag to put over her head![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You expect me to believe that?Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
i wouldnt hit it with her...
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.Originally posted by friendlydays
http://www.mabuhaybeauties.com/04bbpress/01.htm
Huh? what do you mean?Originally posted by CableLight
I like how - at the time of posting this - 3 of the most recently answered 5 posts in this forum are posts from friendlydays asking for opinions on the hotness of a few women
That's great...
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Naaah I'm just curious about cultural beauty. We know that beauty is cultural and very subjective. I'm doing a poll because i want to see how different races of people perceive different types of beauty. that's all.Originally posted by stevera004
I'll do one better and rate you: You got one-itis for an internet chick, a bunch of pixels on the screen! That's more AFC than real-life one-itis.
Snap out of it and go after normal looking chicks.
PS: This chick is absolutely perfect and flawless (looking). 9.8873 I would guess-timate on the old 1-10 scale.
Same here. Maybe 6.5-7 max. Reminds me of a vampire or something...Originally posted by MidwestFreek
Thats a really fake looking smile. She looks plastic, turn off. Pale. Just not that hot. 6.
Okay...It's really not that important and I'm not sure how I could have reworded that for it to make any more sense. "Three of the top five most recently replied to posts" = the first five posts you see when you enter a forum; minus the stickied posts which are always on the top.Originally posted by friendlydays
Huh? what do you mean?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.