Crazy Asian
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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- Thread starter Crazy Asian
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mikeraw
Don Juan
I give her a 7.6
I like her friend, too. They look young, though. Man, I miss those days.
I like her friend, too. They look young, though. Man, I miss those days.
OTB
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I would say she's a least a whole point higher than her darker brunette friend
I'd girl the girl in question about an 8
I'd girl the girl in question about an 8
Kevin Feng
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I thinks she's super cute, I'm a midwest guy origianlly, she has a lot of genuine beauty to her, she looks in shape, seems like she has a spunky personality and is the type of girl you could bring home to your mom.
I've lived in Los Angeles for about 6 months now, and I guess the girls out there are like super mlodel hot, but a lot of it is artificial. I think the girl you have here is a really good catch, at least looks-wise.
Good luck gamin!
-Kevin
I've lived in Los Angeles for about 6 months now, and I guess the girls out there are like super mlodel hot, but a lot of it is artificial. I think the girl you have here is a really good catch, at least looks-wise.
Good luck gamin!
-Kevin
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Hughman
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7.5-8, a bit too skinny for me, but nice eyes.
eaglez1177
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ew i would give that last one a 5
Crazy Asian
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aight, well this is the girl i'm going to prom with.
i honestly didn't have a girl that i really liked.
so i just asked her to prom to have a good time, cause she has a really fun personality
i honestly didn't have a girl that i really liked.
so i just asked her to prom to have a good time, cause she has a really fun personality
Dude, she's hot. All guys have different opinions on looks for girls, and most of the ones here will put the ratings on looks of girls down to show they're picky or only date the super hot girls. Anyways...she's nice, i'd give her a solid 8.5.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Crazy Asian
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yeah hahaKSUgamer said:
i noticed that lots of guy put the ratings of girls down here thinking that it makes them seem cooler.
but i think it's actually good if u find girls more attractive in a general sense, since u have more options then.
in my opinion she is around an 8.
Hearbreaker IV
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I give her a 7.5. Go party with her, she seems lik a a girl next girl type of women. I really like her friend, especially her almond eyes
godofanxiety
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people, don't ever allow others to influence your taste. if you like a girl go for it, and who cares if she is a dog to your friends.
Cowboy 556
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Id give her a poken
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Crazy Asian
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haha spot on broremotecontrol said: