"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mikeraw

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I give her a 7.6

I like her friend, too. They look young, though. Man, I miss those days.
 

Kevin Feng

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I thinks she's super cute, I'm a midwest guy origianlly, she has a lot of genuine beauty to her, she looks in shape, seems like she has a spunky personality and is the type of girl you could bring home to your mom.

I've lived in Los Angeles for about 6 months now, and I guess the girls out there are like super mlodel hot, but a lot of it is artificial. I think the girl you have here is a really good catch, at least looks-wise.

Good luck gamin!

-Kevin
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hughman

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7.5-8, a bit too skinny for me, but nice eyes.
 

Robert28

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:up: :up:
 

eaglez1177

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ew i would give that last one a 5
 

Crazy Asian

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aight, well this is the girl i'm going to prom with.

i honestly didn't have a girl that i really liked.
so i just asked her to prom to have a good time, cause she has a really fun personality
 

KSUgamer

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Dude, she's hot. All guys have different opinions on looks for girls, and most of the ones here will put the ratings on looks of girls down to show they're picky or only date the super hot girls. Anyways...she's nice, i'd give her a solid 8.5.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Crazy Asian

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KSUgamer said:
Dude, she's hot. All guys have different opinions on looks for girls, and most of the ones here will put the ratings on looks of girls down to show they're picky or only date the super hot girls. Anyways...she's nice, i'd give her a solid 8.5.
yeah haha
i noticed that lots of guy put the ratings of girls down here thinking that it makes them seem cooler.

but i think it's actually good if u find girls more attractive in a general sense, since u have more options then.

in my opinion she is around an 8.
 
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I give her a 7.5. Go party with her, she seems lik a a girl next girl type of women. I really like her friend, especially her almond eyes
 

godofanxiety

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people, don't ever allow others to influence your taste. if you like a girl go for it, and who cares if she is a dog to your friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian

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remotecontrol said:
she is adverage..but on the hot side of adverage...if you want her dont show her no respect, even a little politeness will turn her off big time....she will have done a bus load of guys already i would suspect...has that slutty look...kind og chick you could do anything with...i can tell a mile off...
haha spot on bro:up:
 
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