Crazy Asian
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mikeraw
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I give her a 7.6
I like her friend, too. They look young, though. Man, I miss those days.
I like her friend, too. They look young, though. Man, I miss those days.
OTB
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I would say she's a least a whole point higher than her darker brunette friend
I'd girl the girl in question about an 8
I'd girl the girl in question about an 8
Kevin Feng
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I thinks she's super cute, I'm a midwest guy origianlly, she has a lot of genuine beauty to her, she looks in shape, seems like she has a spunky personality and is the type of girl you could bring home to your mom.
I've lived in Los Angeles for about 6 months now, and I guess the girls out there are like super mlodel hot, but a lot of it is artificial. I think the girl you have here is a really good catch, at least looks-wise.
Good luck gamin!
-Kevin
I've lived in Los Angeles for about 6 months now, and I guess the girls out there are like super mlodel hot, but a lot of it is artificial. I think the girl you have here is a really good catch, at least looks-wise.
Good luck gamin!
-Kevin
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Hughman
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7.5-8, a bit too skinny for me, but nice eyes.
eaglez1177
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ew i would give that last one a 5
Crazy Asian
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aight, well this is the girl i'm going to prom with.
i honestly didn't have a girl that i really liked.
so i just asked her to prom to have a good time, cause she has a really fun personality
i honestly didn't have a girl that i really liked.
so i just asked her to prom to have a good time, cause she has a really fun personality
Dude, she's hot. All guys have different opinions on looks for girls, and most of the ones here will put the ratings on looks of girls down to show they're picky or only date the super hot girls. Anyways...she's nice, i'd give her a solid 8.5.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Crazy Asian
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yeah hahaKSUgamer said:
i noticed that lots of guy put the ratings of girls down here thinking that it makes them seem cooler.
but i think it's actually good if u find girls more attractive in a general sense, since u have more options then.
in my opinion she is around an 8.
Hearbreaker IV
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I give her a 7.5. Go party with her, she seems lik a a girl next girl type of women. I really like her friend, especially her almond eyes
godofanxiety
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people, don't ever allow others to influence your taste. if you like a girl go for it, and who cares if she is a dog to your friends.
Cowboy 556
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Id give her a poken
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Crazy Asian
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haha spot on broremotecontrol said: