You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
But he's not an ice cream vendor, he's "Mr. Cool Fun Dance Guy".Can't see an ice cream vendor in the U.S. having his kind of clout.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ah, there's the secret - fame.The dude is pretty popular in Turkey. He's also a Turkish music artist. Thus, instant cred with some attractive females along with all those companies paying $$$ for sponsorship.
He got famous because of his game. He is not really a music artist. His job is being a ice cream vendor.Ah, there's the secret - fame.
Writes his own songs, releases videos and sells merch (and songs). Pretty much what a music artist does. He prob. wrote/sings the songs so he didn't have to worry copyright issues in Turkey in a public forum.He got famous because of his game. He is not really a music artist. His job is being a ice cream vendor.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
This is just wrongI'm going with this guy here