You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Yeah it is. You think they're getting with those guys because of their personalities? lol. It's their good looks and the image they project with their style. Although personality wise, it does help to come across as a player because by definition, only some kind of a hot guy could be one and women love a challenge and uncertainty (if they're attracted to you).
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This is kind of an old pic. I did it cause:
That's why you can't get laid
I see. Lol so I’ve had suggestions to dress like a bad boy and dress dapper in this thread. I’ll just do both. Although honestly I’m really gravitating towards the smooth dapper look, I feel like that could work too. Fits my personality more too like @Amante Silvestre
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do whatever you want. It takes time to reflect on what a right choice is.
Well for one I’m already getting laid, I just made this thread to see how I can improve.
Why not both? Haha. I do enjoy both styles and I’m pretty sure either one could get you laid.
You know I was thinking about that the other day lol. I think the solution in my case would to be just so ridiculously buff that no one would question your masculinity or mess with you
Dont change your clothes.... Keep a fresh edge.. the black experience is something no one will understand unless you are black. All that bad boy, edgy **** does NOT apply to you at all.. don't wear loose clothes..all girls hate that.. that's all you need..
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The most I’ve ever gone is 6. I’ll be doing more Wolfing soon though. The problem is it’s a bytch to Self Cut a taper with glasses lol. Like the whole area you need to cut is covered. So I’ll keep thinking about how to solve that. Honestly as long as the waves are deep at a 2.5 and go all the way around I should be good though. I just have to make sure I don’t scalp my back waves cause it’s a lot of hair to blend into
Yeah it really is different. Seduction material has helped and all for sure, but other than AMS I don’t know anyone who caters to black people. And don’t worry, I can’t stanf baggy sweats and things like that lol. I need to get my physique back so my well fitting clothes are more effective. How come the bad boy stuff wouldn’t apply though?
It does. Thugmaxing won't help.
Well that’s a relief. Rap isn’t even my favorite kind of music. I’m probably one of the few black people in the world that thinks like that but it’s all Gucci
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's because you're black
Not everything is about race fam
No I definitely do lol. Perks of being a college student
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.