Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yeah it is. You think they're getting with those guys because of their personalities? lol. It's their good looks and the image they project with their style. Although personality wise, it does help to come across as a player because by definition, only some kind of a hot guy could be one and women love a challenge and uncertainty (if they're attracted to you).
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is kind of an old pic. I did it cause:
That's why you can't get laid
I see. Lol so I’ve had suggestions to dress like a bad boy and dress dapper in this thread. I’ll just do both. Although honestly I’m really gravitating towards the smooth dapper look, I feel like that could work too. Fits my personality more too like @Amante Silvestre
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Do whatever you want. It takes time to reflect on what a right choice is.
Well for one I’m already getting laid, I just made this thread to see how I can improve.
Why not both? Haha. I do enjoy both styles and I’m pretty sure either one could get you laid.
You know I was thinking about that the other day lol. I think the solution in my case would to be just so ridiculously buff that no one would question your masculinity or mess with you
Dont change your clothes.... Keep a fresh edge.. the black experience is something no one will understand unless you are black. All that bad boy, edgy **** does NOT apply to you at all.. don't wear loose clothes..all girls hate that.. that's all you need..
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The most I’ve ever gone is 6. I’ll be doing more Wolfing soon though. The problem is it’s a bytch to Self Cut a taper with glasses lol. Like the whole area you need to cut is covered. So I’ll keep thinking about how to solve that. Honestly as long as the waves are deep at a 2.5 and go all the way around I should be good though. I just have to make sure I don’t scalp my back waves cause it’s a lot of hair to blend into
Yeah it really is different. Seduction material has helped and all for sure, but other than AMS I don’t know anyone who caters to black people. And don’t worry, I can’t stanf baggy sweats and things like that lol. I need to get my physique back so my well fitting clothes are more effective. How come the bad boy stuff wouldn’t apply though?
It does. Thugmaxing won't help.
Well that’s a relief. Rap isn’t even my favorite kind of music. I’m probably one of the few black people in the world that thinks like that but it’s all Gucci
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It's because you're black
Not everything is about race fam
No I definitely do lol. Perks of being a college student
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.