Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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crazyman11

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Today, i went to my city's annual celebration of itself. I was supposed to meet a girl there(my friend told me she likes me, and i can tell she does when i talk to her), but i had to help out take apart stuff, and move things. I didn't get a chance to talk to her after because she had to go to church, and it was getting late.

I won a stuffed penguin, so i told her i have a surprise for her tomorrow, and she is just dying to know what it is. Tomorrow at school, probably in the morning, i am gonna say "I won this penguin. If you want it, you gotta do something for me" when she asks what she has to do, i'll say "Meet me here at lunch, and hang out with me". What do you guys think of that?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't see why it wouldn't work. It doesn't matter how you ask her. If she likes you, she'll say yes.
 

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hmm good but I'd change asking her if she wants it to something like "I'm gonna give it to you after we hang out at lunch".

It's just more fun and less of the typical "you gotta do something for me" stuff.
 

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Well, i stuck to my plan, and this morning i couldnt get her alone(I didnt have enough time, i had to go to class) So i said my line:flowers: , but she didn't respond -_- She just stood there, but luckily i know a couple of her friends and they said "Just say yes!" so i gave her the stuffed animal and went to class. Then came lunch, we just talked at lunch, but nothing really happened. It was like one of our convo's we have online(which isn't a bad thing). Should i do the same thing tomorrow? If i do it tomorrow, i wanna get some kino cuz that didn't happen today, so i need some tips on how to initiate kino!!! Thx for the help guys:cool:

Edit: One more thing, if this helps, i've known her since last march, but we never really started talking until a couple weeks ago
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Actualy, forget what I said. Maybe do the same concept, with the prize being a date or something like that.
 

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Yea, that's what i was thinking. Maybe go out to a karts & golf(go karts, and mini golf) with her, or ask her to homecoming

Oh, one more thing. Her birthday is this saturday, what would be something nice to get her, or should i get her anything?
 

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crazyman11 said:
Yea, that's what i was thinking. Maybe go out to a karts & golf(go karts, and mini golf) with her, or ask her to homecoming

Oh, one more thing. Her birthday is this saturday, what would be something nice to get her, or should i get her anything?
You're overanalyzing, so just make her a cool card and give it to her.
You don't even need to buy the paper!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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