"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Today, i went to my city's annual celebration of itself. I was supposed to meet a girl there(my friend told me she likes me, and i can tell she does when i talk to her), but i had to help out take apart stuff, and move things. I didn't get a chance to talk to her after because she had to go to church, and it was getting late.

I won a stuffed penguin, so i told her i have a surprise for her tomorrow, and she is just dying to know what it is. Tomorrow at school, probably in the morning, i am gonna say "I won this penguin. If you want it, you gotta do something for me" when she asks what she has to do, i'll say "Meet me here at lunch, and hang out with me". What do you guys think of that?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't see why it wouldn't work. It doesn't matter how you ask her. If she likes you, she'll say yes.
 

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hmm good but I'd change asking her if she wants it to something like "I'm gonna give it to you after we hang out at lunch".

It's just more fun and less of the typical "you gotta do something for me" stuff.
 

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Well, i stuck to my plan, and this morning i couldnt get her alone(I didnt have enough time, i had to go to class) So i said my line:flowers: , but she didn't respond -_- She just stood there, but luckily i know a couple of her friends and they said "Just say yes!" so i gave her the stuffed animal and went to class. Then came lunch, we just talked at lunch, but nothing really happened. It was like one of our convo's we have online(which isn't a bad thing). Should i do the same thing tomorrow? If i do it tomorrow, i wanna get some kino cuz that didn't happen today, so i need some tips on how to initiate kino!!! Thx for the help guys:cool:

Edit: One more thing, if this helps, i've known her since last march, but we never really started talking until a couple weeks ago
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Actualy, forget what I said. Maybe do the same concept, with the prize being a date or something like that.
 

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Yea, that's what i was thinking. Maybe go out to a karts & golf(go karts, and mini golf) with her, or ask her to homecoming

Oh, one more thing. Her birthday is this saturday, what would be something nice to get her, or should i get her anything?
 

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crazyman11 said:
Yea, that's what i was thinking. Maybe go out to a karts & golf(go karts, and mini golf) with her, or ask her to homecoming

Oh, one more thing. Her birthday is this saturday, what would be something nice to get her, or should i get her anything?
You're overanalyzing, so just make her a cool card and give it to her.
You don't even need to buy the paper!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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