"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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rate me! rate me!

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heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why?

Whats so wrong with them? People want help, thats why they're here. So either help or get over it.
 

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yeah but to be qualifed to help them properly look more attractive ot girls, you got to be queer or have a pu$$ey so they will find much better help elsewhere.
 

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I don't agree with that. I'm not gay, or have a *****, but i have a good sense of style (or so i've been told by many women), i don't mind giving out advice (it's why i stay here). If you don't like them, don't read them.
 

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i give advice about it aswell but im still sure a girl would be better at it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Why? you're just falling into sterotypes
 

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they know weather they are attracted to it or not, we just go by our eyes, what looks good to us.
 

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Orignally posted by check_mate_kid_uk

do they like skin heads? thats like asking fo they prefer loud guys to quite guys, each girl will have her own prefrence.
Contradiction. Check mate, kid.

Seriously, if they want advice, there are no rules that say they can't, just because you don't like it, it doesn't mean they have to go.
 

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By that logic, only personal trainers and bodybuilders are qualified to give advice on the Health and Fitness board. People can give tips based on what works for them, just like that forum. It makes sense to me.

As an aside, I don't trust women's style advice. If you tell every guy on this forum to go ask his female friends to help him with style, you'll end up with a bunch of "nice guy" looking or poorly dressed guys, because there are just as many poorly dressed women in the world as there are men - we just don't notice because most guys don't care. Guys who get a lot of compliments on their personal style should share their tips with whoever asks.
 

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Posting party pictures is equal to bragging in your eyes, Checkmate? Other than the pictures themselves, are there any words I might have uttered that would back up that interpretation of yours? Apparently I've been coming off in the wrong way, if that's truly what you believe; either that or you're insecure.

As for the 'help me improve my look', I don't see anything wrong with it. The DJB helps improve game and confidence, why shouldn't people on the board have a way of getting customized and personalized advice regarding what sort of style they would look better sporting? There are plenty of guys around that have fashion sense, and they aren't gay (as you implied), either. Sure, some of the guys might give bad advice, but I'm certain that some girls would give bad advice as well.

On to the "RATE THIS GIRL" threads. I agree entirely. They are completely worthless in my views. What's the point of coming onto SS only to find thread after thread of "HOW HAWT IS THIS GIRL??", "RATE THIS HB", "TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT SO-AND-SO". If the pictures are of people the poster actually knows, or is considering pursuing, then sure... post away. If it's of a supermodel, or a porn star, well save that **** for jacking off to, not for spamming the forum. By the way, "RATE MY PIC" threads are deleted as soon as they're come across as per forum rules (we do have a 'PICS ONLY, NO RESPONSES' thread in which they are to be posted).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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when i said braging about your partys i didnt mean it in a bad way, thats just the first word that came to mind and i couldnt be bothered to tihnk of a better way to put it.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
Preach





Diablo,
Keep on with the party pics I envy you ;)
 
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How about you don't open threads that you feel are a waste of your time. For instance, had I known the topic of this one I wouldn't have clicked on it.
 
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