"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rate me! rate me!

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heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Why?

Whats so wrong with them? People want help, thats why they're here. So either help or get over it.
 

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yeah but to be qualifed to help them properly look more attractive ot girls, you got to be queer or have a pu$$ey so they will find much better help elsewhere.
 

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I don't agree with that. I'm not gay, or have a *****, but i have a good sense of style (or so i've been told by many women), i don't mind giving out advice (it's why i stay here). If you don't like them, don't read them.
 

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i give advice about it aswell but im still sure a girl would be better at it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why? you're just falling into sterotypes
 

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they know weather they are attracted to it or not, we just go by our eyes, what looks good to us.
 

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Orignally posted by check_mate_kid_uk

do they like skin heads? thats like asking fo they prefer loud guys to quite guys, each girl will have her own prefrence.
Contradiction. Check mate, kid.

Seriously, if they want advice, there are no rules that say they can't, just because you don't like it, it doesn't mean they have to go.
 

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By that logic, only personal trainers and bodybuilders are qualified to give advice on the Health and Fitness board. People can give tips based on what works for them, just like that forum. It makes sense to me.

As an aside, I don't trust women's style advice. If you tell every guy on this forum to go ask his female friends to help him with style, you'll end up with a bunch of "nice guy" looking or poorly dressed guys, because there are just as many poorly dressed women in the world as there are men - we just don't notice because most guys don't care. Guys who get a lot of compliments on their personal style should share their tips with whoever asks.
 

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Posting party pictures is equal to bragging in your eyes, Checkmate? Other than the pictures themselves, are there any words I might have uttered that would back up that interpretation of yours? Apparently I've been coming off in the wrong way, if that's truly what you believe; either that or you're insecure.

As for the 'help me improve my look', I don't see anything wrong with it. The DJB helps improve game and confidence, why shouldn't people on the board have a way of getting customized and personalized advice regarding what sort of style they would look better sporting? There are plenty of guys around that have fashion sense, and they aren't gay (as you implied), either. Sure, some of the guys might give bad advice, but I'm certain that some girls would give bad advice as well.

On to the "RATE THIS GIRL" threads. I agree entirely. They are completely worthless in my views. What's the point of coming onto SS only to find thread after thread of "HOW HAWT IS THIS GIRL??", "RATE THIS HB", "TELL ME WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT SO-AND-SO". If the pictures are of people the poster actually knows, or is considering pursuing, then sure... post away. If it's of a supermodel, or a porn star, well save that **** for jacking off to, not for spamming the forum. By the way, "RATE MY PIC" threads are deleted as soon as they're come across as per forum rules (we do have a 'PICS ONLY, NO RESPONSES' thread in which they are to be posted).
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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when i said braging about your partys i didnt mean it in a bad way, thats just the first word that came to mind and i couldnt be bothered to tihnk of a better way to put it.
 

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
heres just a little sugestion, but how about people stop with all these posts such as "heres my pic how can i improve my looks" apart from anything dont you think a girls oppinion would be better.

We certainly dont need anymore posts saying "rate these girls" this is not a porn site.

if diablo wants to brag about his partys by showing us pics well thats fine but do not post pics for us to rate you or to rate some girl on a website. There really is no need what do you think this is, queer eye for the straight eye? well go and get a girls oppinion.
Preach





Diablo,
Keep on with the party pics I envy you ;)
 
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How about you don't open threads that you feel are a waste of your time. For instance, had I known the topic of this one I wouldn't have clicked on it.
 
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